I just really needed to get my feelings out to someone so I'll probably just be ranting here but ya.

I was talking to this guy who I was really starting to like and he wanted to meet me and everything and I thought for sure that maybe I could finally get a boyfriend or at least go on a date cause i have never been on one before. We were talking online getting to know each other and he asked of i liked going downtown and I said I dont really go much cause I cant drive and he said you dont drive and I told him the truth that I cant cause I have epilepsy and he said "I wanna be honest I dont think your the right girl for me." I couldnt believe it i mean its not my fault i have epilepsy. GUYS ARE JERKS!!!! so i said oh and he said im sorry so i just said whatever cause i was upset and he said i dont mean to make you sad.

Awww honey! I'm sorry! :(

But you're right. Guys are jerks. Unfortunetly that doesn't change - like ever. Even the nice ones are jerks 95% of the time. We have to accept it or give them up. I've given them up for now. :lol:

But don't worry, eventually you'll meet one that's not a complete ass and you'll get to go on a date. :D

bubbles91083 (Miranda, right?), you raise an interesting point. You said even nice guys are jerks 95% of the time, but I have to ask: Are they really nice guys? Or the nicest guys most consider dating? I think often times when girls first start out dating it's not really the nice guys they're after. I think sometimes the nice guys are often overlooked at first, they're not the ones with the exciting nature that enthralls the girls. However I think overtime, girls realize while the somewhat jerky guys are somewhat fun for flings, in the long run I think girls/women realize the guy they rather settle with, was always the nice guys that they overlooked. Not to mention as we all get older, we mature, and sometimes that helps reform the wild ways of guys.

As to the OP, I'm sorry that guy was rude in regards to your health. He's really not worth your tears, bitter or hate, just forget him and move on. A guy who is really worth your attention and affection, will not see your epilepsy as a fault, but rather as part of who you are; so not only will he accept it, but he'll care for you just the same.

Yup it's Miranda - and that's def another way of looking at it. :D I know I tend to lean towards the bad guys, the heartbreaker. I know and accept it even as I try to break it. :lol:

I dunno for sure cause i never dated before but i know that i dont just wanna have fun like some girls just date when they are younger to enjoy themselves well im ready for the one i want a real relationship.