I've been wondering about how certain parts of people can be so compelling to people of the opposite gender. Some of them are just disgusting looking, and yet people of the opposite gender think of it as great. Even I am compelled to my girlfriend's....erm.....upper ventral girl section....when if I think about it, I don't really think that what's there is all that nice. Yet....I'm compelled.

Anybody have any thoughts on the matter?

mmm...I don't think there's really a way to answer that question. It's like asking people why they like they're favorite food. Typically they'll say "it tastes good, duh!" or why they're favorite color is they're favorite color, people will usually say "because it's pretty". I think the same principal applies. There's really no reason except it looks nice.

I have too many favourties :P

my b/f is hot 2 me, but everyone else thinks hes ugly ( hes not the most popular guy in the world) but i dunno...its just that a person is never really beautiful till u fall in love w/ them.

ooh han, i so get what ur saying. example. my friend who i wonder if i'm in love (i have no chance w/him though, he's got a BOYFRIEND) is not exactly attractive. He just turned 17 and everyone thinks he looks like a freshman. But I still think he's kinda cute, despite his non-hotness.

very true, i was in love with this chik who most people think is like not-so.pretty and i was like she so beautiful. lol.

lol, yeah. like i kno my b/f isnt the hottest guy ever, but i dunno. hes attractive 2 me. :wub:

that si all that matters in the end....loooks go eventually anyway...personality matters more in the long run :)