Ok, i have almost no friends. My best friend got hit by a car and is probably going to die, and she was like the ONLY person who ever understood me and or cared. Im already in a harsh state of depression and have alot of disorders (the depression, paranoia schizophrenia, anxiety ect.) and im thinking this will send me into a worldly hell. Im seriously freaked out and already spiraling.
Any advice? o.O

im sorry about your friend :( Just think positive and think before you act. thats what i do when im in a bad mood so i dont make things any worse. eventually things will get better

Calm down, alright? Alot of people feel like no one really cares about them, myself included, and I've got a good deal of "friends". Try calming down, and opening up slightly to other people. I say slightly, because some people feel uncomfortable if you randomly walk up to them and tell them everything. Try smiling at people if you catch their eye, or if you're acquaintances with them or something. Someone who's kind and caring, who asks if you're alright if you look down, naturally attracts people. People like people who make them feel good about themselves. Treat every person you meet with respect, and care, and, I assure you, you'll have friends soon enough.

I'm really sorry about your friend. -_-

Thats the thing. I live in a small small smallll place and everyone here is just evil o.O
All my friends live a while away, and my other two best friends are moving to a different state, and consider im already in a deep deep state of depression, im still getting over very personal problems with my dad and my mom just doesnt get ANYTHING. So the few people i do have are pulled away or killed. Im going to probably start taking medicine for my depression and other problems soon but im not sure, is something gonna go wrong?
Im just really, REALLY scared :"(

Don't worry about it. Everything has its course, and everything'll turn out fine, don't worry.

I'm from a small place, too. The town I'm in has 800 people, 30 my age, and the town nearby has 180 my age. Keep a smile on your face, whether you mean it or not, and it can mean alot. I read somewhere, "You never know who might need a kind word today. So, share one." ... It can really do wonders for people.

I know where you live ^_^ So Luis will visit you and make you happy~~~

Well, that isnt small o_O
This town has maybe 400 people and only a few my age and most of them are drug dealer kinda kids, and im not gonna mess with them. This is like a town were retired people from florida come and most of the other people are tourists.

Your town has a funny name XD

Was that really on topic? <_<

No but still... Blowing Rock XD!

And for the friends.. well, you got us on FEW :)

... I don’t know if there’s anything I can say to help you.
Well this is a time where only your own will power can get you through.
Well now to sound like a bumper sticker, running away won’t help you or your friends.

I have friends that only make me laugh at lunch. Then they hit me the rest of the day. No one understands me but one person, the girl I love, and since I'm going to highschool i'm gonna be all alone for a year. No one understands me but her. She's the only one that makes me happy in this lifetime. Without her I'll fall apart. I guess I'll just go throught highschool depressed. I feel just like you Chi. You have it worse though because one of your friends died. I feel for you and I'm deeply sorry.

BTW I just naturally don't make friends even though I act cheerful when I'm depressed. I guess it's some kind of curse. Luckily I let my love and depression out on paper with a pen. I write songs and poems.

well I thought of something that might help,
would your friend be there for you if you were hit?
if so, you should visit your friend tomorrow, and be there for them.

You should visit your friend and spend time with her. It would help her. Nobody likes to be alone especially if in trouble. And at school try talking to someone about anything or if you have a guidance counselor and/or nurse at school try talking with them, they would be able to help you best.

Ok now it turns out that its unlikely that its gonna happen! ^_^
So thats good news, and Hikaru, the things is, loooong distance between were we live. Me=NC Her=DE =\

Yo guys, you need a puppy.

hehe there's still no solution for me. I guess I'll just be happy with this year, the year I can be with my love.

BTW I already have a puppy.

Get another puppy. You can't have enough puppies. Mans best friend right? Who needs friends when you got mans BEST right there? =D

1.I do have two.

2.A man's real best friend is a woman. LOL

Me too -_-

I just keep on going with knowing that tomorrow will be better. That, and always have something to look forward to, i.e, Christmas.

Well, to put simply, you'll make more friends. I'm pretty positive on this. I have plenty of friends already, although sometimes I like going at things alone. You adapt to either way, honestly. Being alone on things give you more strength and power to yourself, while being with friends starts to make you rely on others a bit more than usual. In between you just got a little mix. :P

Anyways, just try to make more friends, there are tons of people in this world. You just aren't looking hard enough, it doesn't matter who they are quite frankly. Everyone is unique, aren't they? Meh, pets are cool too. B) They just don't help alot.

Personally i dont quite belive that kip
None of my friends will even talk to me, i call there house and i can here them in the background and they say there not home, my mom is turning my whole life upside down, she took me out of fucking school (yeah im not joking :angry: )
And on top of that every one hates me (or seems to)
Ive never had a problem making friends but now im all alone and havent made a single new friend in who knows how long.............................if only i could just sleep

All I can say is that you can't always have great friends. I'm a junior in High School, while I have a very large number of "friends" who like me, I don't enjoy spending time with them. This has also caused conflicts whenever I try to get into a serious relationship with the opposing gender, and so far I've been unable to develop a real relationship with someone (which is why I've broken it off both times after a few days).

A lot of people drift away from their friends from high school during and after college, or don't even make that many. I suggest at least trying to get along with people, which is easy if you can talk about stuff in general and be comfortable about your own interests. While you might not have a meaningful bond, you can at least have more fun in other peoples' presences in general, and live day-to-day life a little easier.

Hopefully this advice, even if it's not particularly specific, gives you a bit of aid.

I really hope, though, that since you're so close to your friend in Delaware, you don't lose her. Friends you care about are hard to come by, and I hope you don't lose one. I've never had one.

Pets are nice for relaxing, I guess.

Eh, won't dont you believe from what I said? There are good friends, and bad friends, that are still friends. Why would your mom take you out of school?

*hugs* i'm your friend, yes its only online, but i am your friend. I hope your friend gets better and doesn't... you know...

Most of it
Im not condering them my best friends anymore for this shit
I have know idea why she did it all i know is it pisses me off