I hate it now god im falling for like three different girls right now and so hard to get it out of my head why i posted this cuz i needed to get this off my chest its driving me nuts.

Well, it's normal to have crushes on three different girls...

... Are you looking for help on these topics, or are you just venting?

It's very normal. It's my usual condition actually, though most of the time I have one I focus my attention on, so to speak.

Are you sure it's love? Love and lust can be easily confused(trust me ;) )

I think you're confusing it with infatuation. I had the same problem a while ago but it was with 2. Just go for one and see if it could work out. If not go for the other :P

And either way you'll likely end up having one or more of them hate you in the end. Lovely, isn't it? Or so my experience has dictated.

No, I certainly agree with the others, but I'd say don't be too open about it all. And good luck.

Meh, love is over-rated.

trust me its love one of the girls i've known since birth (thats a long fucking time)
and the other two i met two years ago and lately i cant get them out of my head and its not thier physical features that get to me its thier personalities that makes fall head over heels so to speak but the one i know since birth lives three hours away from me and she is 2 years older than i am but its so frustrating because i see them and im at a loss for words.

Sara-help would be nice ;) .

I currently have no problem with the concept. ^_^

your lucky I cant get them out of my fucking head.

Well, falling into insensibility will get you no where. Just try to be friends, they are girls, not of different species -_-

exactly. just become good friends, do not start a relationship of the 'love' sort. I've made a comitment to only do that. it makes everything much more relaxed and less stressing. then you make your self know that any relationship is off limits, so after some use of self control you won't constaintly have them on your mind. trust me, its a LOT easier.

I only go for a girl if she's not my friend. In all seriousness. It's a hell of a lot easier for me when everything's over after 2 weeks and I haven't just lost someone who's actually emotionally important to me.

Of course, if you're looking for a serious relationship, I would say friends are the only place to look. But chances are everyone here is in high school, or mostly everyone, and I see no reason to seek such a relationship right now. But that's just me, and I'm not everyone.

I do not believe in love. Actually, let me rephrase that... I will write about love, let the characters in my stories experience it, but I do not believe that there is such an emotion.

Emotions are nothing more than neurons, firing impulses of information into the brain. The feeling we associate with 'love' is nothing more than the release of endorphins, which may also be the reason why people find themselves to be addicted to drugs and the sort. (Depending on the drug, of course. While some just make you 'feel good' with endorphins, many of them carry with them a chemical additive that makes them addictive. You know, nicotine and whatnot.) So, when people proclaim 'true love', I cannot help but scoff.

I believe people who cannot get individuals off their mind to be obsessed with the person, concerned about them, or perhaps lusting for them... I do not believe that there is any other reason for such behavior. I believe the concept to be completely abstract, and see no roots of this 'feeling' in reality.

People meet, they kiss, and 'fall in love'. Yes, we've seen this scenario many times before. But all of that usually relies on the desire to find a mate... and, for those who haven't already noticed this, humanity isn't exactly bound to monogamy by anything but moral bounds. Humans, in my opinion, are naturally polygamous... after all, many 'bonded pairs' seem to break apart over the years (or months...), and soon after find new partners. So what is this 'binding emotion'? Nothing more than a set of neurological signals assigned to release endorphins upon seeing someone that will spoil them rotten.

...But that's just my opinion. I think love's a waste of time and energy, personally. <_< I can't bring myself to see what's so appealing about a vulnerability.

Edit: Don't get me wrong; I know infatuation, lust, and the mere sight of another is enough to drive one crazy. I've been through it before. What makes it so unappealing to me is that that one feeling of wanting opens up the door to pain, vulnerabilities (of various sorts, whether it be physical, financial, or psychological), and, if you're lucky, happiness. Honestly, though, I don't see the appeal in having someone sharing the same house, let alone the same bed after only two years of knowing one another. x.x

i'm trying to forget about love ...

(but i still like to see the sexy girls on the university ;))

I'm still stuck with this one girl.
Sucks for you though.
And it's wierd. You say you hate love. Wierd. Irony.

Nevermind. ^_^ Stupid comment. Sorry, asdfgh. ^_^''

Not you. Kakashi. It says on his topic "Love?"
An then when he begins writing he says "I hate it now..."

Hm quite the realist aren't we? Ah love such a touchy subject....for some anyway. Growing up in the enviroment I did I never really thought such a thing existed. Never seeing such things at home or anywhere else for that matter. I took it in as such things as one would santa or the easter bunny, this meant it was beyond belief, that only the mind of a child could and would belive in such things. I said that I would never fall in love or belive in such a childish and intangible thing. This was not to say I haven't had my share of realationships, if you cared to ask how many I couldn't tell you, if you requested their names and asked me to tell you about them, I could tell you everything down to the detail of what I knew, but if you asked if any of these relationships were based on love, I couldn't tell you. I cared for all of them yes, but to love them I couldn't tell you, define love if you would?

I went through a life that would not allow me to know love, anyone I cared about i left of I made leave me because I knew that they deserved a better life then what I offered them, a life where they couldn't endanger themselves and could see me for what I was, so I pushed them away, is that love?

No, Love is caring for someone with such conviction, respecting them completly. Not needing anything but to be with them, and when you speak to them you feel completly comfortable with eachother, you forget about all your problem worries and cares when your with them, when your not around them you think about them, their the first thought in your head waking up and last one before you sleep. You can tell them anything, you can accept them for who that are as they do you, you like them for their merits, but love them for thier flaws. It something that's always there even though you never care to see it, and when you do you deny it.

When and idividual claims that this emotion is nonexistent it is because they have been hurt by it by not embracing it, or are a realist as the example here seems to be. It does exist I have expirenced it pureley only once, and like a drug I want to feel it again, when loved someone feels like their worth something.

This creates the question however how can you tell love from the other emotions similar to it, you know when your in love because you can't explain for reasons beyond even your understanding you feel drawn to this person, that is love, we fight against it, we don't want to understand it but we must.

As intagible as love is it becomes all to real once you must forego some form of sacrifice, this follows the rule of never getting something for nothing, emotions aren't just biological crap, they are feelings that help you know completion, something that humans have searched andd lusted for, no one here or anywhere else may say they have never wanted to be complete, to know who they are, and to understand that answer. Love means monogomy regaurdless of the generalazations you state not even you can deny that their is a minority that fall out of that generalization. Showing weakness and being hurt by opening your heart to another makes you stronger, a wound heals, where as a void can never be healed it can only get bigger and worse. Soon this person would become a shell of what they were they cease to be human, hatting and loathing the very thing they have become all because they refuse to garner weakness.

This is only the truth, I would never speak anything else.

:mellow: you guys arent helping.

love is kinda complecated.. but true love is only for one person..... so..uh pick.... i mean you can't love 2 while you date one right?

i am crushing on 3 right now.. but.. i dont nesacarly love them :)

I cant choose its to hard.

Well then I hate to say it, but your life is now doomed to perpetual suckage, unless you can make up your mind. That simple.

Seconded. Perpetual suckage.

Pick one. Pick the one that seems to return your feelings the most?

Thirded. Perpetual Suckage.

Just write down all you know about them, then all you feel, and think long and hard about each, and think if you could really live the rest of your life with them.
Usually, you'll get rid of all of them, and determine which are crushes if you think long enough.

I'm in the same spot and I did it. (It didn't work, i ended up hitting my head)

Fourthed.
Love can stink sometimes. You better pick one sometime. Choose the one that makes you smile, laugh, listen, you know... just feel great. That is the one worth going for.

or you could do what my friend does. He thinks of each of them as a kindof pop. He had 2 to pick from once. He labeled each of them mountain dew and coke. Then he chose is favorite pop. He went with that one. If i didn't work out, he went with the other.

ok here are the three
Evelyn
Analicia
Gladyis
i want you guys to ask me hard hitting questions so i can make my desicion.

One: Who do you feel most close to?
Two: Which of them do you think will return your love the most?
Three: Which one do you know the best?
Four: Which one of them seems most interested in love(It's almost impossible to love someone who doenst love you back)
Five: Why do you think (name here) would make a good Girlfriend?
Six: Think about the future, think of the possible scenarios if you ever went with one of them (separately for each!)

These are what I will say.
I am sort of knowledgable in these mainly because I am a sixteen year old who can barely get a girlfriend.
Yes, I have had as much as 7 crushes at once, but No, I will not say who they are or what happened between each.
Let's just say that girls I like never learn to look back before looking forward . . .

Good luck with your choice man.

One: Who do you feel most close to? Evelyn
Two: Which of them do you think will return your love the most?Analicia
Three: Which one do you know the best?Evelyn
Four: Which one of them seems most interested in love(It's almost impossible to love someone who doenst love you back) Gladyis
Five: Why do you think (name here) would make a good Girlfriend? Analicia
Six: Think about the future, think of the possible scenarios if you ever went with one of them (separately for each!)
Evelyn dedicated love last more than a year
analicia last more than two months
gladyis last for two months

You didnt exactly answer #5 correctly, and your choice is still a little blurry.

Your choice is still up to you, but based on what you answered here, think about it for a while. *pats on back* Good Luck. Im rooting for you. ^_^

In other words, Gale, his life is still condemned to perpetual suckage. You should do what I do and just ask one of them out on impulse. If it works it works. If not, perpetual suckage...

:mellow: thanks now i know who to go too for my problems

Love is over-rated.

Maybe even non-existant. D:

It is not! You already lost that argument, so don't even start.

I don't think it's overrated, or non-existant. I really, really believe in the whole true love thing. Possibly because I'm obsessed with fairy tales, but that doesn't matter. I think it's one of those things that most have to experience to believe.

Ah..... Love.... Love is like a goody bag. You never know what your going to get. It could be a giant Tootsie Roll, it could be candy cigarettes. No mater what happens, you'll still get a sugerhigh if you eat enough.

What I'm trying to say is that love can be good for some people and they belive and some it may be bad and thay don't belive. But anyway love is, it still is the same, like getting sugerhighs off of tasty and not tasty candy.

Wow, Valter, you've just made an analogy of Forrest Gumpic proportions.

We reached an agreement. I didn't lose. >_>

Nope man. It's sara. You lost.