Yeah relationship problems. I'm currently not in a relationship(nor do i want to be), but i have a few friends who i've observed.

One of my friends is known for taking other peoples girls friends unexpectly.at times he would be completely obvious that that girl is currently with someone. His latest gf was with a gang member but he didnt know.after about 2 weeks after meeting her he decided to take her as his gf. He took her out on about 2 dates then they smashed(ghetto term for sex). about 3 days after then did that, her orginal bf found out. he came down to my block and was searching for him. a friend and I were sittin on the porch talking then he walked in my yard.

this is the crazy part.

i asked him who are you looking for, then he took out his gun and pointed it to me and asked me where my friend was.

at that moment I was half scared to death and half nonchalant(i'm normally calm about everything). i told him i didnt know then he got an attitude and yelled at me WHERE IS THAT MOUTHA------! I told him one more time i didnt known while in my heart pray that i'll get out of this alive. He then said, fine, Tell him that he better not mess wioth my girl or all of y'all are dead.

later on that day i was still abit shoken when i told my friend what happened. he then immediately broke up with her for safety then went home and locked his doors.

That wasnt the only problem i've seen happen to cheaters.

another friend of mine has a history of getting girl friends so dam fast. so some friends of mine were wondering how does he do it.

after he got his latest gf, we asked her how long did she know him. she responed for 3 monthes, which was around the time he got his last GF. the we asked has she ever done it with him before going out with him and she replied, yes..a few times accually. now i thought that was bad. his last GF found that out also and she found out where she lived and beat the shit outta her.

About a week later she(the old gf) comes back to his house yellin at him about how could he cheat on her like that, then he had to be an idiot and say, "one girl is not enough for me."

she went ballistic and started hittin him with random items from his house. he punched her pretty hard in the gut then threw her outside him house then called the police on her.she was sent to jail that night but she was released late on. I'm not sure what happened after that because he stopped hanging around us.

Basicly from seeing all these event happen in my block it makes me kinda uneasy about getting a GF, and since something similar to the top and bottom happened to my parents(now they're devorced) it kinda intensifis my feeling toward getting into a relationship.

I know that i wouldnt dare cheat but what if my gf cheats i wouldnt know how to handle that kind of pressure. Luckily my last gf and I were true to each other but we broke up due to distance, our schedule, and school.

whenever bad event happen i tend to over think the problem then see if that could happen to me. kinda makes me sad to think about it.

anyway aanyone has any suggests for me, comments, etc.

*skeptical*

No way all this crap happens around you. <_< As for cheating, I restrain from any responses.

I'm sorry, but both of your examples there have one thing in common, which I find somewhat amusing: both of the people who were cheated on didn't get mad at their girlfriend/boyfriend right away. Honestly, now. Does it really make sense to blame the person they cheated on you with instead? :/

WA, some people are polygamist. That's all you can do; you can't change them. If you don't think that you'll ever cheat on your girlfriend, then there's no reason for you to be afraid... unless you go out with some girl who already has a boyfriend, but that's pretty easy to determine, isn't it?

Also, a comment: the people around there desperately need anger-management classes.

lolololol

another bull shit story

My girlfriend in High School cheated on me, and I slapped her and got suspended.

Cheating sucks, doesn't it? :huh:

Okay, there's these three people, Jen, Jen's boyfriend (lets call him Matt), and Ashley.

One day in gym class, Jen storms into the girl's lockerroom with tears streaming down her face. . . Blah blah blah. Matt cheated on her with Ashley (expected, she's a skank.).. Blah blah blah. Drama. Matt was going to commit suicide in the school.

This really happened...

Moral. Don't get involved with whores. ^^;;

Hm, puffs story suggests cheating= emo. I think that would prevent me from both.

Well... Yea, if you loved that person that cheated on you, wouldn't you get depressed and angry? Or if you're the cheater, and you realized you made a drastically bad mistake, I believe you'd get depressed...

The truth is, my girlfriend was cheating on me. Since I found out, I've been too busy in marching band, getting my math grades up, and tutoring people that I'm both too busy and don't need a girlfriend right now.

Next year, I hope to be taking AP math, not just English.