can we offer a incentive if you bring a feind to the site? say, 50 gold?

of course, you'll need to think of a way of proofing the system. but it may be a good idea.

In the forum I just advertised, if you get someone to join that person PM's the admin saying so and so referred them, then so and so gets a prize.

I didn't know that!...*must get Demonslayer Dante to stop going to drama club so he can go on and hang out and get me my reward!*

i think that might work, but the person must get up to level 3 or something.