Title: A Message from the ever distant Cloaked Dictator
Description: I'm only here for about 2 minutes...
SpiralStatic - May 17, 2005 11:48 PM (GMT)
... don't expect any word from me. But for the message
Life sucks. I'm a failure in every possible aspect. Rant over.
Karn - May 17, 2005 11:53 PM (GMT)
Don't think like that, it's not healthy.
Fenix - May 18, 2005 12:22 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ReydeMagival20635 @ May 17 2005, 04:48 PM) |
... don't expect any word from me. But for the message
Life sucks. I'm a failure in every possible aspect. Rant over. |
ok i will agree with you life hella sucks, but you dont suck at everything, hell i thought i did for a few years (probaly due to super depression) and well...... just keep searching
Dragon_Tam3r - May 18, 2005 12:32 AM (GMT)
You can't fail at everything, you can't fail at failing with not failing something else... or soemthing like that... anyways just take a break, go to flordia or london or somewhere, its all cool
Durendal - May 18, 2005 03:35 AM (GMT)
My advise wouldn't be well recieved and its probably bad for an admin to recommend illegal substances so I'll just say this, "Don't worry, be happy".
Míxtil_<3_fish! - May 18, 2005 04:56 PM (GMT)
lol, durly (soul eaten!)
i recomend doing graffiti. draw bunnies with chalk. or take iillegal substances. or both att the same time that works.
Trace Stratus - May 18, 2005 08:16 PM (GMT)
First question, did you have your anti-depression pills lately or do you take them?
first serious question, why are you depressed?
sara13987 - May 18, 2005 08:24 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ReydeMagival20635 @ May 17 2005, 09:18 PM) |
... don't expect any word from me. But for the message
Life sucks. I'm a failure in every possible aspect. Rant over. |
Aww, don't think like that. Trust me. I've gone from there and back again. Just keep doing things you like. If it's sports, or any sort of game not based on luck, you will get better over time. Giving up after you try something for the first time never gets you anywhere. Think about it. If a singer, any singer, tried singing for the first time, and hit a wrong note, and gave up, where would our music be? Everyone has a place in life, and it takes persistance and courage to overcome obstacles. If something doesn't turn out right the first time, just keep trying. It'll turn out right eventually. (That's the point I'm at with cooking... -_- )
If you need any help, Rey, just give me a shout, alright? I'll do everything in my power to help.
| QUOTE (Dur) |
| My advise wouldn't be well recieved and its probably bad for an admin to recommend illegal substances so I'll just say this, "Don't worry, be happy". |
Dur, don't even start me. Don't. I'll have a bone to pick with you, otherwise, and you know it. <_<
Kyrillos - May 18, 2005 09:50 PM (GMT)
I'll agree here. I'm about ready to shove food down someone I know
s throat cause she thinks life is bad, and is trying to starve to death....
And my life was hell for about.....3 YEARS. 3 YEARS. So, cheer up, try to be happy, go have some fun.
Fenix - May 18, 2005 09:53 PM (GMT)
3 years isnt so bad my life has been a living hell since i was 11 although there was that one period (ahh the memories) and im almost 15 now so...... go figure
sara13987 - May 18, 2005 10:01 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Fox_Shadow @ May 18 2005, 07:20 PM) |
| she thinks life is bad, and is trying to starve to death.... |
Oh, my... That's the easiest way for... me, anyway, to hurt myself. She's looking for attention. Be there for her as much as possible, and comfort her when she looks even slightly upset. Someone I know has a run in of the same sort, and me and my friend were freaking out about it. You can't make her eat, though, and that's the problem with that.
Anorexia, or, not eating, is a typical sign that she's not happy with herself. Whether she's trying to kill herself, or just trying to dramatically lose weight, you need to be there for her. Don't tolerate her putting herself down, as she's killing her self-confidence by doing that. Compliment her as much as possible, and tell her that if she needs to talk about something, to talk to you. But, depending on how close you are to her, she may not. Also, if it gets much more out of hand, talk to her privately about it, and get to the root of the problem. Worst comes to worst, tell her parents. I wouldn't reccomend that, though.
Kyrillos - May 18, 2005 10:03 PM (GMT)
Which is what I'm trying to do...she's trying to slit her wrst as well....
sara13987 - May 18, 2005 10:08 PM (GMT)
Oh, my... even worse. You definitely need to tell her parents. They might be able to get her a psychologist, or something. I don't even know this girl, but I'm worried for her, already. Try to keep her occupied as much as possible, to keep her mind off suicide. Sports, games, and such do well. Any huge amount of time she spends alone can do alot of damage. She seems to have no self-confidence, and it takes a long time for confidence to build itself up. Again, remind her how much you like her, and whenever she says anything suicidal, tell her exactly what you think about it, and what your life would be like without her (even if you have to lie a bit). Never be harsh. That could kill her confidence more.
Kyrillos - May 18, 2005 10:10 PM (GMT)
wonderful....now she know the (Pm) stuff is real....
Now I have to keep her occupied....*coughfinalscough*
Míxtil_<3_fish! - May 19, 2005 12:40 AM (GMT)
tiP: is suicidal people are carrying razor blades around, blunt hem. that really helps. allso, to stop her from slitting her writsts you should let her beat somone up. the she'll feel better. really.
Kyrillos - May 19, 2005 12:52 AM (GMT)
unfortunently, this isn't your typical Goth suicider. It's a tad bit more complicated.
Dragon_Tam3r - May 19, 2005 01:35 AM (GMT)
Míxtil_<3_fish! - May 19, 2005 03:24 PM (GMT)
kay. aien, aybe i can help over PM.
sara13987 - May 19, 2005 07:03 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (mixtil @ May 18 2005, 10:10 PM) |
| you should let her beat somone up. the she'll feel better. really. |
Honestly, mixtil, that advice didn't seem relevant to me. Sorry. Girls don't feel better when they're "bet up". If she's suicidal, she's depressed. If she's depressed, she needs her friends. Any major wrong move can cost alot. And, there's a very fine line between major and minor. That's the problem.
Fox, I'll bring this up with my friends tomorrow, and see if they've got anything, alright?
Kyrillos - May 19, 2005 07:52 PM (GMT)
I think I'm getting the problem solved with a couple o f friends. Now...where to buy local brass knuckles. I have a visit to someone...(not the girl)
Trace Stratus - May 19, 2005 08:52 PM (GMT)
Goth's aren't suididal, emo's are. ;)
Míxtil_<3_fish! - May 19, 2005 10:02 PM (GMT)
1. trace is right.
2. sara, im not a girl.
3. try your local stoner. at school we make em out of wood in DT