Title: Love. Should I?
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 02:14 PM (GMT)
I've recently fell in love with a girl in 6th grade. I'm in 7th grade and I'm not sure this is right. I've already admitted it to her on the bus since we were already friends. She doesn't think it's right either and she likes me too. Should I wait two years and hook up with her then since were going to the same high school?
strikeraider827 - August 14, 2005 02:19 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (asdfgh2004 @ Aug 14 2005, 07:14 AM) |
| I've recently fell in love with a girl in 6th grade. I'm in 7th grade and I'm not sure this is right. I've already admitted it to her on the bus since we were already friends. She doesn't think it's right either and she likes me too. Should I wait two years and hook up with her then since were going to the same high school? |
Ah... This story again... Hmm, I don't really see anything wrong with it, but a lot can change in 2 years. Trust me.
Missy_Roxx_Meh_Soxx - August 14, 2005 02:31 PM (GMT)
It doesn't matter, as long as you guys are close in age enough. The same happened to me, and now I'm in love with a girl a year older.
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 02:52 PM (GMT)
She turning 13 in Dec. anyway. I'm just not sure right now.
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 02:52 PM (GMT)
She turning 13 in Dec., Same age as me anyway. I'm just not sure right now.
Míxtil_<3_fish! - August 14, 2005 03:34 PM (GMT)
well, if yoour willing to face the insults and hated then yes, go for it.
Esgalglinion - August 14, 2005 04:20 PM (GMT)
I have a girlfriend one year younger than me (almost),and she lives over the ocean.I'd definately go for it.In those two years,who knows,she might become stuck up etc.
Míxtil_<3_fish! - August 14, 2005 04:23 PM (GMT)
not wise words to utter....
Esgalglinion - August 14, 2005 04:26 PM (GMT)
Míxtil_<3_fish! - August 14, 2005 04:28 PM (GMT)
saying sara may become stuck up etc...
Hiei - August 14, 2005 04:50 PM (GMT)
vashies - August 14, 2005 05:01 PM (GMT)
OMG its a effin YEAR what so wrong about that????!!?!?!
Míxtil_<3_fish! - August 14, 2005 05:03 PM (GMT)
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 05:14 PM (GMT)
Just sayin I don't like ridicule just because she's in a different grade.
She's gonna be 13 anyways.
sara13987 - August 14, 2005 05:18 PM (GMT)
Alright, my honest opinion is that you're really young for this... Kill me if you will, but, I don't think guys actually feel love until they're older. Seventh grade is rather... young...
Now, a question: What are you honestly hoping with this girl? A life with her, or for her to just be your gf?
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 05:20 PM (GMT)
GF for now. As I get older i'll feel better sice were both going into same high school.
sara13987 - August 14, 2005 05:23 PM (GMT)
Hun... I don't really care, then. If it works out, then that's great. Very few 7th grade relationships actually turn out happy, though. That's a warning... I doubt it will last. Sorry.
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 05:25 PM (GMT)
hey doesn't matter with me. I don't get too emotional on things.
vashies - August 14, 2005 05:46 PM (GMT)
HAHAHAHAHAHA not emo..if your not emotional about stuff..how can u like this girl?thats an emotion..how can u NOT like to get ridiculed, that and emotion and so on and so on
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 05:48 PM (GMT)
I said too emotional and it's about some things.
Example: Two of my dogs died and I didn't even care.
Severian - August 14, 2005 06:20 PM (GMT)
Well, I'm surprised you don't care at all, though I can understand taking it fine.
Umm, asking for advice online about relationships from a bunch of other kids your age might not be the best idea. We don't know you that well, and we don't know your potential girlfriend at all. It's ludicrous for us all to pretend that we can give advice.
The only advice I think we can just in general is don't take it too far, since you've got a long life left to live. But if you're a fairly unemotional person, that wouldn't be a problem, I assume.
Hiei - August 14, 2005 06:22 PM (GMT)
6th grade girls are annoying.
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 06:25 PM (GMT)
Well not this one.
Wow! Mr Bucket has become the best speaker in FEW. He always says thing in the best way.
Oh and Hiei.
A PEDOPHILE IS SOMEONE WHO HAS SEX WITH LITTLE GIRLS!
WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT AGAINST ME!!!!
Phantom - August 14, 2005 07:40 PM (GMT)
well ... you should wait ... you two are too young for "love" ... at first you will feel that everything is good ... but after some time you will see that it's not "love" ... and it will hurt you too much ...
Take the advice of someone that already knows that feeling ... you should wait until you are 15 or 16 ...
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 07:46 PM (GMT)
that's why I was asking if I should wait till were in high school. And yyou should read the last few posts about that emotion part.
Phantom - August 14, 2005 07:50 PM (GMT)
belive me ... that's going to hurt you ...
i got hurt twice alredy ... but i have hopes on this third love ... sice i'm older and more experienced ...
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 07:53 PM (GMT)
Just because it hurts you doesn't mean it hurts me. Keep your own feelings.
'Ivan - August 14, 2005 07:53 PM (GMT)
Why is this dependent on grade and not age? :angry:
Phantom - August 14, 2005 07:55 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (asdfgh2004 @ Aug 14 2005, 02:53 PM) |
| Just because it hurts you doesn't mean it hurts me. Keep your own feelings. |
your dog died and you didn't feel anything ... :o
someone that was close to me died two years ago and i didn't feel anything ... ... ... now that i think about it, they were right, i'm a cold guy ...
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 07:56 PM (GMT)
We are close in age. She'a becoming 13 in dec.
It's just that in my school people make fun of people going with girls in grades below them. It's weird.
KuraiKitsune - August 14, 2005 08:09 PM (GMT)
Look... I think you're simply too young for this. For example... look at me. I'm sixteen, and have never had a boyfriend. Do I care? No. Having a relationship too early is simply asking for heartbreak, as most cannot decipher the difference between love, lust, or perhaps even a close friendship until the other crosses the line.
It's simply not worth getting your heart set into if you're not even looking for a potential life partner. Isn't that what dating is all about? In my opinion, if one is to dedicate their heart and soul for another, then they'd best find a partner they can keep those feelings with for the rest of their lives. If that's not what you're looking for, then what's the point? Are you going to use her as property? To say, "Look, I've got a girlfriend!"?
I may not know all the details, but I've seen enough people go through heartbreak to discourage you from garnering a relationship doomed to it. Most relationships started that early die hard...
Hiei - August 14, 2005 08:14 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (asdfgh2004 @ Aug 14 2005, 06:25 PM) |
Well not this one. Wow! Mr Bucket has become the best speaker in FEW. He always says thing in the best way. Oh and Hiei.
A PEDOPHILE IS SOMEONE WHO HAS SEX WITH LITTLE GIRLS! WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT AGAINST ME!!!! |
A joke is something that is not serious.
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 08:19 PM (GMT)
Hey I don't care. I just like to flame people if they flame me. I just thhink of that as fun. I like putting stuff in capital letters.
asdfgh2004 - August 14, 2005 08:21 PM (GMT)
Alright. You know what. Forget it. I'll decide on my own and I don't care if it leads to this "heart break" that you speak of. Can somebody lock this topic so people don't use it to keep other topics down?
strikeraider827 - August 14, 2005 08:29 PM (GMT)
'Ivan - August 14, 2005 08:30 PM (GMT)
Yup.
~pok~
EDIT: Dang. Spacehamster got to it a minute before I was able to log in. >.<
strikeraider827 - August 14, 2005 08:31 PM (GMT)
I had closed the topic, don't keep openning it 'ivan.
'Ivan - August 14, 2005 08:32 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (strikeraider827 @ Aug 14 2005, 04:31 PM) |
| I had closed the topic, don't keep openning it 'ivan. |
Excuse me? I can post in closed topics. ^_^
Not only that, but I tried to lock it also. But you had gotten to it before I was able to, causing me to post.
strikeraider827 - August 14, 2005 08:34 PM (GMT)
'Ivan - August 14, 2005 08:45 PM (GMT)
We love you too, Spacehamster.